The happy consequence of having deeper conversation, according to recent research, is that even when the deep conversation is with acquaintances and strangers can have the same positive effect on your happiness levels as talking with a close friend. But our views on these things are part of who we are. You may be reluctant to engage in deeper and more meaningful conversations with acquaintances because you remember long-standing advice around not talking about controversial topics like politics, religion, sex, or money. Parker explains that we’ve been socialized to prioritize harmony and avoid conflict, especially in social gatherings.
This is from a chapter called “Cause Good Controversy”. Apply for yourself a promise to be more present, but also think about how you can create a culture of single-tasking in your organization.Ī well-meaning desire not to offend can devolve into a habit of saying nothing that matters. People often describe that when they are at home they’re thinking about work and when they’re at work they are thinking of home. In this digital age especially, it’s so easy it’s almost expected that we’re multi-tasking. In a world of infinite choices, choosing one thing is a revolutionary act.
How to leverage space and logistics to enhance your gatheringīeing intentional about beginnings, physical surroundings, and endings Why your gathering must have a well defined purpose Doing this leads not only to efficiency, but more importantly to deeper meaning and connection with others. It has a very logical and chronological flow that helps the reader to understand that you can and should curate the experience of your gatherings. The Art of Gathering is based on Priya Parker’s extensive experience as a professional facilitator. This book includes demonstrated proof about why these things matter. Sometimes it feels like my colleagues think I’m over-engineering it. I’m always thinking about the details the meeting purpose, who is included, the logistics of the room, what the meeting planner will say and how we will open and close the discussion. Priya Parker has validated my instincts to be a little uptight when it comes to hosting meetings in her book, The Art of Gathering.
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